Extramarital Affair - Where and When is He Doing it?
Knowing your partner is having extramarital affair with some other woman is devastating - but how do you find out some of the clues you need about it?
What, When and Where is he actually doing it - and with who?
First of all, know that the role of the third party is not as important as why he is doing it in the first place. She can be anyone he turns to due to some problems in the marriage (His problems anyway).
With that in mind though, no one can decide whether or not you should find out more information about his extramarital affair. If you want to find out, read on.
1. The Other Woman
I have put this first in the list as once you have a good guess on who the other woman he is having the extramarital affair with, it is a little easier for you to find out other clues such as where and when the meeting actually take place.
So how do you find out who she is?
Try to jot down a list of names - female names that he has mentioned in the past few weeks or recently. There won’t be many names. Also, since normally affair is unplanned in the beginning, he would have mentioned that name in conversation before.
Normally the person he has an affair with has something in common with him - at least enough to entice his ‘excitement’ brain. This will make him blurt out her name subconsciously anyhow.
Tips: It is good if you are calm and act ‘dumb’ - so that he doesn’t know you are suspecting anything. This will definitely make him make more mistakes such as saying her name even more times than he should - bring her into conversations even more.
2. What are they doing?
As you would have guessed, they would do things you wouldn’t want to know about. But beside that, there must also be some other things they do - the things they have in common. Usually this is something that he doesn’t have the opportunity to do with you.
Example of the activities can be sport, skateboarding, skiing, the gym etc.
3. The Meeting Place
Knowing him for a while you should have a fair idea on what he enjoys doing - without you. With this in mind you can also guess where those activities take place e.g. fishing in the lake and so on. Don’t forget, the physical things would also happen somewhere and the safest place sometimes is your own house or area.
He can also meet her around their workplace if they work together.
4. When they are doing it?
This relates to number 3. I am sure you wonder how he can ever meet his other woman in YOUR place… huh?
Well, just as you know him, he also knows your schedule. If he normally is oblivious and doesn’t really care about what you do, now he would. He also has a good idea on which ones of your plan you would carry out.
Whether you like it or not, you will have fixed schedule such as ‘working late every Wednesday night’ or ‘Go out with the girls every Thursday night’. Some of them you just cannot get out of and he will use this very time to meet his significant other.